Doing research for this site, it’s not often you come across something you could show non-swingers and have them understand that we aren’t so bad after all. This is one such example, when a large swingers website becomes a sponsor of an online child advocacy group, good things start to happen. Swingers Date Club, also known as SDC is now a corporate sponsor of The Association of Sites Advocating Child Protection (ASACP). You can read the press release on the ASACP website or read an older one from 2007 announcing Adult FriendFinder as a platinum member. The association is known for having created the ‘RTA’ (Restricted To Adults) label which is freely available to website owners who want to clearly indicate that their material is not intended for minors.

Apparently this groups of ’swingers’ were running a club in Mineola, Texas and having children perform sex shows on the side. After spending quite a while trying to find this club, I have come to the conclusion that it was not a a real swingers club, but just a bunch of sickos. These people were most likely posing as a swingers club as a cover, boy that’s a new take on covert operations. The good news is that they were convicted (link includes video) and as a follow up, another person was also convicted. Cannot believe that they are dragging swingers through the mud with this bullshit, as I have never heard of swingers and pedophilia being related!?!

We’ve started playing this game with another couple we used to hang out with a while back. They were the first out of town couple we met and even though trips out of town weren’t as often as we’d like, we took turns and came up with this basic set of overnight etiquette rules:

-The host pays for the babysitter and pizza if plans include going out for the night.

-Kids must follow the rules where they are at to avoid parental issues. For example, at our house all the kids stay at the dinner table until every kid is done eating…when your kids visit, we expect them to follow this rule as well.

-Now that you are in the lifestyle, you should always have a small over-night bag in your car just in case (a) you’ve had too much to drink and you should sleep it off before driving or (b) you’ve too much fun and you should lay down in my bed for a while before leaving…lol!

-Overnight bag content suggestions: condoms, lube, contact solution, medication (aspirin, viagra, allergy and such…), candy/mints/gum and a power bar for those long nights. Don’t forget your ‘adult toys’ and the kids blankie!!!

-If the kids are playing video games, then everyone must play (multi-player games only) or taking turns otherwise nobody plays any games.

-Pets are family members too so make sure to discuss with the host if they have a pet in case there are allergies in your family. Also, if you wish to bring your pet, make arrangements first.

-Hosts, be sure to have a variety of toiletries available to your guest. Make handy a bundle of towels enough for each person. Supply robes (if possible) if you are having a hot tub party.

Now that you know how to play the game…do you have more rules to add to the list?