‘Dear Deidre’ Not A Fan Of Swapping Partners
Although Dear Deidre says that swapping may be saucy but it can also ruin a relationship. In her article published in the Sun, Swinging and swapping, she mostly tells it like it is. But there are several areas that we disagree with, such as the man wanting to join the lifestyle more than the woman. While that is true, she fails to mention part II of this well known fact…it’s almost always the woman that keeps the couple in the lifestyle after joining. Also, is it not possible that couples can have hyper sex drives and want the company of other couples with like minds without actually having a problem as Deidre would suggest? Finally, yes it’s true that your lover might fall for another person if you engage in swapping activities, but one thing we can tell you from experience is that personally, swapping has showed us that we truly do want to be with each other and there is not much that another person can offer that you most likely don’t already have or can get. Just remember, no matter how hot that person is that you think you are having feelings for, somebody, somewhere is tired of putting up with their shit!
